Document the load balancer model in the README

[sudomateo]

Context

README.adoc covers none of the load balancer behavior users will actually interact with. Every item below will surprise a user today.

Scope

Add a load balancer section to the README documenting:

• The three service annotations: oxide.computer/floating-ip, oxide.computer/floating-ip-pool, oxide.computer/floating-ip-version (including mutual-exclusion rules).
• There can only be one LoadBalancer service per unique spec.ports[].port. Since floating IPs are transparent to Oxide instances, traffic will arrive on the instance’s internal IP address using spec.ports[].port. The service controller adds both the floating IP and the instance’s internal IP to the LoadBalancer status so that Kubernetes creates the per-node firewall rules needed to allow the traffic. Put another way, a load balancer configured to use port 443 will conflict with another load balancer configured to use port 443.
• That the "load balancer" is a floating IP pinned to a single node chosen alphabetically — a bandwidth bottleneck, with failover happening on reconcile cadence rather than instantly.
• That externalTrafficPolicy: Local is rejected (and why).
• Which Service fields are unsupported (loadBalancerSourceRanges, loadBalancerIP, dual-stack ipFamilies).

Done when

A new user can predict LB behavior from the README alone.